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How to share euphoria

A portal for accessing cruising grounds as temples of love

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Braden Alexander
Sep 23, 2022
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Come with me.

Let’s leave the house of judgement.

We can escape the lovelessness of the grinding city, where everyone is a stranger to each other.

And one more time, before the ground gets cold, let’s visit the place where we can walk, feet bare, and be wild. There is something sacred here that I want to share with you.

We are going to the place where men go to love.

It takes a bit of effort to get to Eden-places.

You have to travel. There is an air of adventure.
They are always off the beaten track and hidden in plain view.

It’s not only a matter of where to find these places.

There is also the matter of how to enter
the portals that lead us into other ways of being alive.

It’s possible to walk right through them and never truly arrive.

If you really want to experience the world as paradise
you have to bring your heart with you.

The mind is full of confusion and judgements. If you stay locked inside the mind, you will be assessing everything you see, stuck inside your idea of things. Missing the beauty that waits for you here.

Drop down into the heart.

Relax and breathe under the sky of the heart. The big, broad heart that knows the wisdom of surrounding everything with care and respect.

And then, as you settle down closer to the ground of your being, find the tree of the heart. The little, personal heart that longs for adventure and is hungry with desire.

This is how we enter the temple of love.

Let’s go together.

And see what we can discover
about finding harmony
through our shared pleasure.

There is one more thing. A key.

In order to enter heaven, you have to be in touch with the longing inside your body—all of those dark, demonic desires that swirl inside your belly.

The part of you that aches with need.

Feel it rise.

Allow the full shape of your desire. Let it be.

This small god that lives inside you is welcome here. You will find many who want to worship him.

But it would be a mistake to give your lust the reins completely.

That would only lead to more of what we have been doing forever: waking up the dragon only to spill its magic out onto the ground, wasted.

This energy is a potent seed. This time, we’re going make more of it.

Squeeeeeze your beautiful butthole and bring the horny energy up into your vastness. Let it soften your emotions and supercharge your heart. Feel how this juicy, creative energy brings the mind alive.

Ah, now we have more of us available to us.

It’s a practice.

Let’s play with it.

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