Are you a man or are you something else?

So, this whole fagazine, this whole Buoyfriend thing, was inspired by Alex, who is my boyfriend, who once said to me, “when I hold your hand, I feel uplifted.”

When I heard him say that, my heart opened wide and I thought, oh, okay. This is how I want to be loving. Everything was reorganized inside me, a field of love blooming.

How had I loved before? S…